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"You will beat this, and we're going to help you!"

  Hello my beautiful friend,

    In my opinion, one of the most important things a cancer patient can have is complete trust in their care team. These are the healthcare professionals that will be guiding you on your journey, and you want to be able to have confidence that they will lead you to the finish line. 

    When I found my lump, I called my gynecologist's office to get it checked out. Dr. Thompson is a physician who not only cares for his patients, but deeply respects his patients' choices and wishes. He sent me for a diagnostic mammogram and ultrasound, which led to a biopsy, and then my diagnosis. When the nurse at the at the breast center called me with my results, she said my gynecologist frequently worked with a specific breast surgeon. What a blessing Dr. Frame turned out to be. He was so kind and patient, extremely knowledgeable and wanted to make sure I understood the nature of my diagnosis. Find a surgeon like that, someone you can trust, and who genuinely has your best interest at heart.

    After considering the size of my tumor, and the type of cancer I had, Dr. Frame recommended that I have a lumpectomy. There were a few people who didn’t understand why I didn’t just have a double mastectomy and "be safe", and you know what, that’s okay. It’s okay that others don’t understand why you choose a specific treatment. I trusted my doctor, and if he thought a less drastic treatment plan was in my best interest than I was comfortable with that. If you trust your doctor, and you are comfortable with the treatment he is recommending, that’s all that matters, and even if people mean well, they don’t have to deal with the consequences of your decision. So, don’t let people pressure into one type of treatment or another. 

    At my post op, Dr. Frame said that out of the 5 lymph nodes biopsied, 3 were positive for cancer cells, and he wanted to refer me to a medical oncologist. I don't really remember everything he said, because that wasn't the news I was hoping to get, and I went a little numb, and everything sounded like I was under water; but when he said the name of the oncologist he works with, Dr. Cole, I was snapped back to reality. You see, Dr. Cole’s wife is one of the owners of the company I work for. So while I hadn’t met Dr. Cole personally, I had heard of him for years. I had heard he was a VERY good doctor who cared deeply about his patients and took extraordinary care of them. Even if some would consider that a very small and insignificant coincidence, to me, I felt that Jehovah took my hand in His, and was telling me, “See, you know who that is, it’s going to be okay! I am with you and I am taking care of you! So don’t worry, you are going to be just fine.”   Looking back, I can see Jehovah’s love and direction in that situation. He constantly reminded me I was never alone in my fight. I don’t think my referral to Dr. Cole was a coincidence at all, I really think it was Jehovah’s doing.

I am so grateful that I have such an incredible care team. They are people that you will be seeing for years so it’s important for you to develop a good relationship with them. Never be afraid to ask questions, even the same one multiple times, because it’s important that you understand your diagnosis and treatment plan. Keep fighting my friend!!!! I am rooting for you!!! 

 

Much love,

Laryssa

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